Just discovered this site. Wonderful space!!
What you say about Pakistan defining oneself resonates with me. Of course, it is interestingâ€“though inevitable, reallyâ€“that those of us most comfortable and well-thought-out in our being Pakistani that are most comfortable engaging with India, Indians and our common heritage, too.
Keep up the good work!
PS: Have you seen http://pakistaniat.wordpress.com ?